When the words don't come easy, we're here to help.
When your child shares something about how they see themselves, you might know what's in your heart but struggle to find the words. As a Christian, it can be hard to see how it’s possible to be faithful to your religion and values and support your child through the struggles of same-sex attraction or gender confusion. That’s where CT4F wants to come in.
We’ve developed free scripts based on personal experiences facing and tackling these very obstacles and the stories of triumph when families like yours can come out on the other side, whole and healthy – both as a family and as Christians.
These conversation guides walk you through those moments, step by step – giving you simple language, gentle questions, and practical phrases you can use right now to keep your child close and protect your relationship.
Two Essential Conversations
When Your Child Tells You Who They Are
For Christian parents, talking with a child about how they see themselves.
Use this when your child has just shared something with you. Covers the first 48 hours and beyond.
You'll find:
What to say (and not to say) immediately
Questions that help you understand without interrogating
How to answer when they ask if you still love them
Safety planning and practical decisions
How to repair things if it didn't go well the first time
How to Use these Scripts
01
Before
Read through the guide that fits your situation
02
During
Keep it nearby if it helps, or hold onto one or two key phrases
03
After
Come back for repair strategies and practical next steps